The most offensive part is that a person you were having feelings for thinks you can be potentially a scam artist. They aren’t very confident and secure, and, probably, have a lot of baggage.
It’s pointless to accuse girls in being potential scammers, or even suggest that she may not be 100% sincere.
Scammers will assure you they are genuine, but honest women will be offended, and most likely refuse to talk to you again.
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This time a guy complained about a woman that she “wasn’t real” and when asked for details, said we should read his emails on the site. What happened, being a Gold member, he didn’t have access to video chat on Elenas Models site (accessible for free for Platinum and Ultimate members), so he demanded from this lady to meet him on Skype.
When she didn’t react, he sent another email saying he wasn’t going to continue the communication and would assume she wasn’t a real person unless she met him on Skype, and that he needed to make sure she looked like her photos, because the photographs were professionally done.
After which she basically told him to get lost, and he decided to report her as a scammer. When you don’t see another person and their reactions to your words, people tend to be much more hurtful than they are in real life. Who would be that daring if they were facing the person they were abusing? In this conflict, it was plainly obvious that the way the guy asked for a webcam meeting was too pushy and offended the woman, and he didn’t even realize it. A lovely lady in her 40’s, she was the first to mention the problem she had with one man on our dating site who accused that her profile was fake.
Guys, there are many ways to express the same thing!
😉 You can be nice and pleasant, or you can be obnoxious and pushy.
There is a completely different feeling to these 2 phrases: The first one will be met with delight, and the second one with disdain.
Just remember: any phrases implying that you are unsure of her sincerity will always have a bad effect on a real relationship.
How would you feel if she told you, Not very nice, right?
Do you think we spend time on trying to convince these guys we are not running a scam? We simply offer them a full refund, or, if they are not paying members, suspend their profiles, so that they would never be able to join again. People with an attitude problem like this will always have trouble, suspecting every woman that she has a hidden agenda.
Which means, they are going to be taking time of our staff complaining to Help Desk, and, probably, abusing women as well, which is going to turn into custard very quickly.
And then we have 10-15 women dropping off the site, because they felt offended and do not want to continue using Elenas Models.